The church have a feeling that all is not well in your home but you are able to keep up a front to all.At home the reality is more than you can bare.Your rowing as a couple.You both get angry,you both say things you should not.You both are drifting away from eachother.You both are longing for somone to love you.So your marriage is on the rocks.The first thing is it's time to stop suffering.You need to say to your wife or husband you can't take it no more.You need to say it in love,you need to say it right now,because if you dont you will explode in anger and it might be in such away it will destroy your marriage for ever.Then you need to seek the help of christians.You need to ask some pastor or a christian couple who will not take sides and help you work through the problems.You both need to be humble,you both need to listen,you both need to realize both of you are hurting.Take your problems as a couple to the Lord,both be ready to listen to what he tells you in the bible.The reason why marriages break up is because both sides will not make the effort to show the love needed in the pain of the situation.If you refuse to be humble,listen and seek Gods help you will cause pain on the other person.If they dont be humble,listen and seek the Lords help they will cause you pain.But get it all out in the open now.Seek help now.Dont pretend to be holy and pious when you know things are not right.Its ok to say you have not got life sorted.Its ok to seek help. Your marriage has a chance to survive if you seek help.As Pastors,and churches you must not take sides but try to see the marriage from both couples point of view.If you take sides you will help break up a marriage.Just be there for the couple and help them work it through with the Lord ,his word ,and people who have the wisdom to help.If your marriage is on the rocks it is a painful time for you.But you suffer more now because you are trying to show the world all is ok when it is hell at home.I'm sorry for the pain your feeling.You are special to God.Dont get bitter.I hope your marriage is saved.If not ,you need to know the Lord loves you,he has a plan and he will lead you on.You might feel your whole world has beeen destroyed,but the Lord is sweet and kind and it will work out for you in the end.He is able to take are brokeness and make somtheing new. God blesss you.Hear are some scriptures to read in your trial.Psalm 121, 2 corinthians 1:3,4 psalm 69 Please remember the greatest thing you need to do is be obedient to the lord.Live a Godly life and no matter what all will be well married or not married.
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